The Leadership Superpower You Can’t Fake: Listening
“To say that a person feels listened to means a lot more than just their ideas get heard.
It’s a sign of respect.” – Deborah Tannen
Over the years, I’ve become a big fan of high-fiving folks for a job well done.
Recognition lifts morale and keeps the wheels of the organization turning smoother than
a greased mower deck. But here’s the deal: behind every pat on the back is something
more important—listening.
Not the “uh-huh, sure, got it” kind of listening.
I mean real listening. The lean-in, phone-down, eye-contact, “tell me more” kind.
Listening Is a Secret Weapon (That’s Not So Secret)
Gallup says employees who feel heard are 4.6 times more likely to be rock stars at
work. Translation? If you want better engagement, fewer walkouts, and more people
who actually care—start listening.
How Great Leaders Listen
You don’t need a Ph.D. to be a great listener. But you do need a little discipline and a
dash of humility:
*Make room. Create space for others to talk—even when their ideas stretch your
patience or challenge your plan.
*Zip it. Fight the urge to fix, judge, or jump in. Quiet your inner monologue. Yes,
even the smart one.
*Watch the show. Body language and tone often scream louder than words. Pay
attention.
*Stick with it. Don’t be a once-a-week listener. Be consistent. That’s how
trust—and innovation—grow.
Why Companies Are Catching On
More organizations are training people to be better listeners. It cuts down on mistakes,
boosts creativity, and—believe it or not—makes meetings actually worth attending.
“We have two ears and one tongue so we’d listen more and talk less.” – Diogenes
Listening isn’t soft. It’s strong. It’s not just polite—it’s productive.
So before your next big idea, give someone your full attention. It might just change your
team—for good.
Keep listening. Keep growing. Happy Easter weekend!
— Jeff
